With most events, it is often the little details that make a big difference in the end. Hosting a dinner party is no exception. Whether it is Thanksgiving, a birthday party, or just having a few friends over, bear these finishing touches in mind to help keep your sanity, make your party run even smoother and leave your guests feeling extra special. These 5 finishing touches are small and simple, but will make all the difference in party success.
5 Finishing Touches for Party Success
Manage the Mess
No matter what the event is, there will inevitably be a small mess to manage at some point. Get a jump start on it by making as much food in advance, cutting down on the dishes you have the day of the event.
Whether you use china or paper, there are always dishes from the meal and cooking. Empty your dishwasher before guests arrive and pre-load soap in it, so it is ready to go. If you don’t have a dishwasher or you have too many dishes for one load, designate a corner space in the kitchen or tub to stack dirty dishes. This keeps the kitchen looking nice, and your sink available for uses.
(Make sure the dishwasher is empty before the party)
Also, double line trash bins, so it is easy to take out and replace, so you won’t have to be looking for new bags or accidently tossing something away without a bag being in place.
(Double line trashcans for easy removal of waste)
Set The Mood with Lighting
The way a room feels can vary drastically just by changing the lighting. The flip of a switch can change the mood. For daytime, natural, soft lighting is the most flattering – so open the curtains; at night, try lighting a few candles. For dining, stay away from scented candles as these can hinder your taste experience.
Beverage Basics Set Up
(Set up coffee and beverage stations in advance)
Grinding coffee beans and filling ice buckets don’t seem to take long; yet, when guests are waiting and you want to be mingling, these little things all get in the way of a good time. Prep the bar in advance and incorporate some self-serve options if you can. Check here for some D.I.Y Bar Basics set up tips.
Set up the coffee machine with water and filters beforehand; get even your cream and sugar containers ready in advance.
Gifts for Guests
Everyone loves to get presents. Give your guests a little something to remember the event. It does not have to be big or expensive, just a little forget me not. I love candles decorated with ribbons and a little note, or homemade gifts like custom spice blends, jams or a little jar of local honey. Sometimes even a single flower is a nice gesture. Gifts are not necessary and not expected; I think, that is why I like them so much. These little favors go a long way in telling your guests that you are thankful and that you care.
(Give guests a little something special to remember the event)
Take Care of Yourself
(Relax and take care of yourself first)
Finally, we entertain to enjoy the company of others. It is easy to get caught up in making everything perfect. It is truly impossible to enjoy and care for others well when you have not cared for yourself first. Think realistically about what you are committing to, how much you really want to be involved and what a great party looks like to you, then plan accordingly. If something does not fit for you, have the power and respect for yourself to say no instead of trying to squeeze it all in.
Be clear and honest with yourself, ask for help. Not everything has to be made from scratch for it to be delicious. Your guests will notice if you have nervous, stressful or anxious energy. Get as much done in advance as you can, take a look around and be proud of everything you have created. Trust that everything will be perfect and it will. By taking care of you, others will be happier as well.
