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Family Dinner: How to Host a Meaningful Meal

Family Dinner, How to Host a Meaningful Meal

Family Dinner: How to Host a Meaningful Meal

Research shows that eating meals together increases the quality of relationships, improves communication, saves money, leads to healthier habits and several other benefits of a family dinner. A family meal does not have to be dinner or just include family. Here are some ways to get started hosting your meaningful family mealtime.

Who: Gather family and/or close friends. Sometime role models come best from people outside the family. Don’t limit your family meal. Invite close friends, relatives even neighbors or a friend of the children over to help foster relationships.

What: Consume food in a meaningful, deliberate way, not just eating as quickly as you can to rush to the next activity, but eating while fully being present with others. Take time to inquire about each other’s days. Start conversation with open-ended positive questions. Try, what was good about your day? What fun thing did you learn today? What are you looking forward to tomorrow? Keeping the conversation upbeat and positive makes this an activity to look forward to. Keep tough family matters and discipline for a later time. Turn off your devices to limit distraction and add to a sense of togetherness. I often suggest if a person is that important to chat with over mealtime next time invite them to the meal.

Why: Eating a meal together is a ritual that foster healthy relationships. See the 8 Benefits of sharing a family meal. Enjoy this time to pause from the daily activity and connect with loved ones. Generally, people who participate in family or group mealtimes are healthier and happier than those who eat alone.

Where: A meal can take place anywhere. Don’t let the idea of it looking a certain way stop you from taking part in the meal. Typically, it would take place in a home at a designated table where participants are all sitting together and distractions can be limited. This could also take place at a park sitting outside or even at a restaurant, as long as the participants are engaged with each other and not distracted by other events or devices.

When: Rarely does a family sit together for every meal. Most people think of meal time as the evening meal. You should know that it can look different and family or group meals can take place at breakfast and lunch as well. Set a goal to eat as a family 3-5 times per week and try getting lunch with a group of friends 1 time per week rather than eating alone. Notice the effect it has on your mood and relationships.

How: Make a commitment to start small and value your health and relationships. Identify what days and times work best for everyone’s schedules, knowing that everyone may have to give a little to make this work, and see the benefits. Be clear about what times are family mealtimes, and when to be home. Don’t force it, but invite others to participate. Make it clear that for the mealtime, devices are not welcome and conversation is. Invite others to participate in preparing food, setting the table, cleaning up and planning meals. When each person has a role to play and can contribute, it is more enjoyable for everybody and less work for you.

Remember that the food itself is less important than the act of joining people together. It is more about connection rather than the food. The food can be as simple as sandwiches, pizza or leftovers, a new recipe or a family favorite; even take-out counts. Be a good role model, set examples for manners and how to treat others. Practice eating slowly to take part in conversation, help digestion and simply enjoy the meal. Simple things like setting the table, lighting a candle or giving thanks all add to the ritual of making the meal an event, a dedicated time to relax and enjoy togetherness while everything else can wait for a few moments.

Thanksgiving Leftovers

Thanksgiving Leftovers Made New

Thanksgiving Leftovers

What to do with all that Thanksgiving leftover goodness? You had the big feast, you planned well, and everyone had their fill of delicious food. But now, what to do with all the leftovers? I don’t know about you, but I am not one that can eat the same thing day, after day, after day. My husband Joey, on the other hand, would be just fine with this. Whether Thanksgiving leftovers are your thing or not, here are a few creative ways to use up some of the most common leftovers in a new way.

A note on Thanksgiving Leftover Safety

Before we get into the recipes, remember to keep the food safe. One of the leading causes of food-born illness comes from improper cooling and storing of cooked foods. Follow these simple guidelines to ensure safe eating.

  • Once the turkey is out of the oven, you have two hours (this goes for all food, actually).
  • Food should not be left in the temperature danger done at 40-140° for more than 2 hours; this is the standard food safety protocol.
  • Store leftovers in clean, small containers, so they can cool quickly.
  • Refrigerated leftovers, if kept well, are generally safe for 3-4 days.

For more information, check here.

Turkey and Carcass

Make Turkey stock and any variety of Turkey soup. Soups are a great way to draw out all the flavors left on the turkey bones and use up any remaining vegetable scraps.

Basic Turkey Stock

  • 1 turkey carcass
  • 2 tablespoons butter
  • 2 large onions, chopped
  • 3 celery stalk, chopped
  • 3 carrots, chopped
  • 1 bay leaf
  • cold water
  • salt and pepper

Remove all meat from bones. Reserve nice pieces for sandwiches, and chop all other bits and pieces into chunks for soup. In a large stock pot, melt butter, add chopped vegetables and sauté until tender. Add turkey carcass and cover with cold water. Add bay leaf and season with salt and pepper. Slowly bring to a boil, reduce heat and simmer for 2-4 hours. Remove carcass, then cool. Strain the broth and skim the fat. Discard remaining vegetables and the bay leaf.

For Turkey Soup

  • 2 tablespoons olive oil
  • 2 garlic cloves, minced
  • 1 medium onion, minced
  • 1 large carrot, peeled and minced
  • 1 large stalk celery, minced
  • 1 medium sweet potato, peeled and cubed
  • 1 tablespoon chopped fresh sage
  • 4 cups turkey or chicken stock
  • 1 bay leaf
  • 2-3 cups shredded or cubed turkey meat

In a large soup pot, heat olive oil, and heat garlic; add onion, carrot, celery and sweet potatoes. Sauté over medium-low heat until softened, about 7 or 8 minutes. Add chopped sage to the soup pot, along with the broth and the bay leaf. Bring to a simmer. When simmering, add meat to the soup. Bring it back up to a simmer. Simmer for about 5 more minutes, until sweet potatoes are tender.

Make it different and try adding some of your own touches:

  • fresh green beans
  • cooked rice
  • noodles
  • corn, hominy
  • green chilies
  • chipotle in adobo

Change up the seasoning with: rosemary, thyme, coriander , cloves, star anise or cinnamon

Mashed Potatoes

I love making mashed potato pancakes; they can be sweet or savory and served any time of day.

Mashed Potato Pancakes

  • 1 cup leftover mashed potatoes, room temp
  • 1 large egg
  • ¼ cup milk
  • 1/3 cup flour
  • ½ teaspoon baking soda
  • pinch salt and pepper
  • 1 tablespoon butter
  • 1 tablespoon oil

In a bowl, mix the potatoes, egg, and milk together until well combines. Add the flour, baking soda, salt and pepper, and milk until smooth. Heat a pan with butter and oil over medium heat. Pour about 1/3 cup of the batter onto the griddle and spread to be about 4 inches wide. Cook flipping once about 3-4 minutes per side. Transfer to a 200°F oven to keep warm while cooking the remaining batter.

Serve with butter, sour cream, or apple sauce. You can also try it with cooked ham, or top it with a fried egg.

Dinner Rolls or Bread

Leftover bread works great as a base for bread pudding. Bread pudding is awesome because it can be sweet or savory and mixed with a variety of seasoning or other additions to fit your desired tastes. Use the Thanksgiving leftover bread, rolls or buns to make this dish your own for breakfast, lunch or dessert the next day.

Sweet or Savory Bread Pudding General Guideline

Sweet Bread Pudding

Sweet Bread Pudding

Savory Breakfast Strata

Savory Breakfast Strata

Base:

  • 8-10 cups cubed bread
  • 3 cups milk
  • 6 eggs
  •  ¼ cup butter

Sweet:

Seasonings:

  • 1 cup sugar
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla
  • ½ teaspoon cinnamon, allspice
  • ¼ teaspoon nutmeg, cloves

Additions:

  • ½ cup pecans/walnuts/almonds
  • 1 cup raisins/cranberries/apricots

Drizzle with caramel sauce or maple syrup if desired to serve.

Savory:

Seasonings:

  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • ½ teaspoon pepper
  • 1 teaspoon mustard (dry or Dijon)
  • 1 teaspoon hot sauce (optional)

Additions:

  • 1-2 cups ham, bacon, or sausage
  • 2 cups cheddar, Swiss, or Colby jack cheese (reserve ¾ cup to sprinkle on top)
  • ¼ cup chopped onion
  • 1 cup total of your choice, chopped bell pepper, sautéed mushroom, asparagus, summer squash

Lightly butter a 9×13-inch baking dish. Spread the bread cubes in it. In a medium bowl, whisk together the milk, eggs and the seasonings for either the sweet or savory options. Mix any additions into the bread to create you own signature Sweet Bread Pudding or Savory Strata. Pour the milk and egg mixture over the bread cubes. Let it stand overnight until the bread is fully soaked. Before baking, drizzle with melted butter. Cook in a 350°F oven for 1 hour till bubbly and set.

Leftover Cranberry Sauce

Cranberry Spreads:

There is so much to do with leftover cranberry sauce! It can easily be used in both sweet and savory applications. One of the simplest ways to use leftover cranberry sauce is to mix a little into a softened cream cheese, yogurt or mayonnaise to make delicious spreads for toast, dips for fruits or yogurt parfaits and sandwich spreads.

Cranberry Grilled Cheese:

If you want a savory treat, make a cranberry grilled cheese. You can use white cheddar or brie cheese and extra turkey, apples or pears slices if you have them on hand.

Cranberry Muffins, Bread and Pancakes:

Baking is also another option. Try the recipe below for simple cranberry muffins or for something even easier – just a little leftover cranberry sauce to your favorite store-bought bread, muffin or pancake mix.

Cranberry Syrup:

Speaking of pancakes, here is one more way to make them extra special. Make a delicious cranberry maple syrup. In a small saucepan mix equal parts maple syrup with leftover cranberry sauce, and add a splash of orange juice. Bring to a boil and simmer for 5 minutes until slightly thickened. Allow to cool and serve.

Simple Cranberry Muffins

cranberry muffins

Makes about 12 standard size muffins. The recipe takes about 35 minutes.

  • 1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour (you can use 1/2 cup whole wheat flour if your prefer)
  • 1 cup rolled oats
  • 1/2 cup brown sugar *
  • 1 teaspoon baking powder
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
  • 1 cup chunky leftover cranberry sauce
  • 1/2 cup milk
  • 1/3 cup vegetable oil budget
  • 1 egg

* If your cranberry sauce is fairly sweet, you may want to reduce the amount of sugar to 1/3 cup depending on your tastes.

*Optional: add 1 cup walnuts and 1 teaspoon orange zest.

Heat oven to 400°F. Line standard muffin tin with paper baking liners or grease well. In a large bowl, combine flour, oats, brown sugar, baking powder, baking soda, salt, cinnamon, orange zest and walnuts if using; mix well. In a medium bowl, whisk together milk, oil, cranberry sauce and egg; blend well. Fold the wet mixture into dry ingredients all at once, stirring until just moistened. Divide the batter between 12 muffin cups, filling each just about to the top. Bake 20 to 25 minutes, or until toothpick comes out clean when inserted into the middle. Are muffins not your thing? Put this batter is a greased loaf pan and bake at 350°F for 55-75 minutes until toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean.

Outdoor entertaining

Outdoor Comfort, Essentials for Entertaining

Outdoor entertainingOutdoor entertaining has so many simple wonderful aspects but the joy of being out in the fresh air and sunshine can quickly turn sour if you forget to mange these few key comfort areas. If your guests are not comfortable they are not going to stay.

Bugs: Living in Minnesota the bugs are the number one issue and the quickest demise of outdoor gatherings. Mosquitos are most active at dawn and dusk so plan accordingly if out at these times to protect your guests. Plan in advance for large gatherings and get an eco-friendly service to spray your yard, stock up on citronella candles, start a bonfire, light decorative torches or lanterns.

  • Remove sources or standing water which can be breeding grounds for mosquitoes, check things such as birdbaths, wading pools, garden pools, clogged gutters and buckets that may have collected rain water.
  • Place a cut orange or a half full can of soda pop away from the party area to attract bugs to this location rather than your party.
  • Serve drinks in clear plastic cups as cans and bottles are good hiding places for insects when you are not looking.
  • Keep food stations covered if possible.
  • Manage the trash by keeping garbage cans accessible to guests but away form main gathering areas and keep them covered if possible to minimize attraction to bugs.
  • Feeling crafty try out this recipe for homemade citronella candles.

Sun escapeSun: The sun can often cause more damage than good. Be sure there are ample places for guests to rest in the shade of a tree, tent, even large umbrellas or have an option to escape to an indoor area.

Dirt: Let’s face it: you’re outside, the kids are running around – it’s bound to get dirty at some point. Allow guests the ability to wash up easily without having to run to a restroom. Provide hand wipes and a hand sanitizer, or if you want to go the extra mile – warm folded cloths or disposable thick towels. Remember to keep food safety in mind: check out week #1 if you missed what you need to know before you dish up. Food poisoning is never a good thing to give guests as a memory.

SeatingSeating: Your guests need a place to relax, make sure you have ample seating but make it conducive to mingling. Set up little sitting areas for 3-6 people. Avoid lining seating in a circle unless you plan to give a demonstration. If you don’t have enough chairs use blankets, large towels and outdoor pillows to make comfortable seating on the ground. If you are eating, it is wise to have a few extra blankets on hand just in case someone spills, so you can have one to eat on and one to relax on.

bug spray sunscreenExtra Thoughts: It is a great idea to have an outdoor party basket equipped with a few essentials you may need like bug spray, sunscreen, wet wipes and Band-Aids that guests can help themselves to, for a complete list click here

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Floating sunflower decoration

Easy Breezy, decorate with casual summer style for less

After you invite guests and plan the meal, it is all about creating a mood. The mood is the underlying tone of a party that ties everything together. It is the little elements of decoration, colors, centerpieces, flowers, lighting and sound that all play into the overall feel of the party. Here is how to pull off a unique and elegant look without breaking the bank.

Guests at the table

Serving Items: When it comes to outdoor events I like to use high quality disposable products. There are nice ones on the market now that are durable and made of recyclable and compostable products so you don’t have to feel so bad about tossing them away. Don’t go the inexpensive rout here: higher quality dishes means more durable, so less chance of spills, cracking and guests dropping a plate of food. Acrylic dishes are also nice as they are strong, reusable and you don’t have to worry about them breaking but you do need to wash them.

Napkins: Add color with napkins: use paper, assorted cloth or craft bandanas that you can usually find for $1. When purchasing napkins look for ones with solid colors or non-decrepit designs that can be easily mixed and matched and used for multiple events, avoid ones with writing like “Happy Birthday” or “Welcome Baby”.

Centerpieces: Use your recycling for vases, glass bottles or jars from things such as wine, juice, and salsa to make perfect vases or candle-holders with the labels removed. Cans from soup or vegetables can be painted or covered with cloth and filled with flowers or potted plants.  Think outside the box for centerpieces, flowers are great but also fruit, candy, rocks, even branches put in a vase can be an interesting decorative centerpiece.

Lemons glass decor

Speaking of flowers: look around your garden; pick wild flowers even some weeds can be quite lovely in a garden setting. Split a grocery store bouquet of daisies into multiple small vases – you will be surprised how far one bunch of flowers can get you! Or try the “less is more” approach of just floating one larger bud like a mum, sunflower, Gerber daisy or a rose.

Table Coverings: don’t all have to match. Use what you have, pick up plastic ones if you want particular colors, shop thrift stores and get creative with multiple fabrics, burlap is really popular lately and inexpensive lace from a fabric store can add a simple upscale look. You can also let colored napkins to sit under centerpieces for an extra splash of color or incorporate a few mixed table runners made of cut fabric for interest.

Outdoor lighting can often do double duty to help keep the bugs away as well. Citronella candles and garden torches lining the premise of your party add a nice glow and keep away the bugs; be cautious of using citronella around food as the sent can be strong and overpower food. Break out the Christmas lights and string a few strands on a nearby tree or bushes. As the sun goes down these will keep the mood fun.

Outdoor lighting

Finish it up by streaming in or creating a mixed playlist of some soft music that fits the theme or mood of the event and you are ready to party in style! What is your favorite way to add interest to your party space?

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